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Families Torn Apart by Decades of War Are Finally Finding Each Other—on Facebook
Parents whose children disappeared decades ago are turning to the world’s biggest social network as a lifeline.
The first post Lilian Esperanza Alvarado ever made on Facebook was a plea: “i need to find two people.”
It was September 2012, and she’d bought her first computer and a pay-as-you-go modem. Typing at home felt strange, like she was living in an internet café, as she’d never had her own PC. She’d made these purchases for one reason: to find her son and daughter, Salvador and Dalinda, whom she had not seen since they fled during El Salvador’s civil war. In March 1988, her kids, then 7 and 9, had gone to the bus station with their father, Isidro, and fled to Mexico. Three months after their escape, Isidro called to tell her that they were still saving up to be smuggled into the United States. She begged him and the kids to turn back.
Instead, she never heard from them again.
El Salvador’s civil war, which lasted from 1980 to 1992, left many families in tatters, whether they were sympathetic to the left-wing guerilla groups or sided with the military and the paramilitary forces that assisted it. Some people were kidnapped, others left for the U.S., and…
