3 Things Parents Need to Know Now About Kids and Tech

Whatever your view of tech’s impact on our children, here are commonsense rules we can all follow

Nir Eyal
OneZero
Published in
7 min readMay 11, 2021

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By Nir Eyal and Jonathan Haidt

Photo: McKaela Taylor/Unsplash

Recent social science research has parents concerned about whether deep immersion in digital technologies is bad for their children.

A variety of studies find that rates of teen anxiety, depression, and self-harm have risen since 2012, in the U.S., the U.K., and Canada, although the evidence that this rise was caused by smartphones and social media is hotly debated.

It may take another decade for researchers to reach agreement, but parents need guidance now if their kids are to develop a healthy relationship with technology.

To limit or not to limit, that is the question many parents are asking. The question has become even more pressing during the Covid-19 pandemic as children spend more time indoors and on their devices.

We are participants in the debate, and we are to some extent on opposing sides. Jonathan Haidt’s 2018 book points to social media as one major cause of the corrosive Coddling of the American Mind.

Meanwhile, Nir Eyal’s most recent book concludes that tech overuse is a symptom, not the cause of…

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Nir Eyal
OneZero

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